Skip to content

“Unpacking the memories behind a family store” — Hadassah Update, December 2012

January 2, 2013

Hadassah Update: COM Bulletin, Dec. 2012

The following is a feature story that appeared in the Hadassah update of the Congregation of Moses (COM) Bulletin (Kalamazoo, Michigan):

The 26 Hadassah members and guests who attended the October movie-luncheon meeting were treated to the story of Nathan and Sally Birke and their rather unusual marriage and department store. Imagine walking into a retail business and being greeted by a large “NO BROWSING” sign. Then, when you ask if a jacket comes in another color or size, the owner kicks you out and tells you to shop elsewhere. That was the experience of generations who shopped at Birke’s Department Store in downtown Lowell, Mass., often described as the T.J. Maxx or Marshalls of its day with regard to quality and pricing.

The movie had an introduction by Szifra Birke, daughter of Nathan and Sally, who shared her memories of her parents’ past. After the movie, with technology expertise from Joyce Camhi and Diane Fogel, we established a Skype connection with Szifra, and she graciously shared with us many more memories and some challenges she faced when growing up. We wanted to do something to show our appreciation to Szifra and ordered flowers to be delivered to her mother, Sally, now in a nursing home. Coincidentally, it was Sally’s birthday. We later got this note from Szifra: “Thank you all so much for your incredibly thoughtful gesture for my mom. Her birthday flower arrangement is gorgeous. When I saw that they were from the Kalamazoo Hadassah, I was filled with emotion. Thank you again for such a sweet and kind gesture.”

And thank you, Maxine Berke, our new member, for bringing this movie to us. Browsing Through Birke’s left us nostalgic for the characters who populated our childhoods: tough, funny, resilient people who had weathered unimaginable storms, and who somehow managed to continue to be productive, creative life forces.

 

 

 

About these ads
One Comment leave one →
  1. Bob permalink
    January 8, 2013 7:08 pm

    RIP…Shalom….Dziękuję Sally Birke owner of Birke’s clothing store

    Sally Birke (born Sura Dymantsztajn in Lodz, Poland on November 12, 1920), the welcoming other half of Birke’s clothing store in downtown Lowell, MA, passed away on December 28, 2012. Sally was the quintessential helpful retailer, treasured by her faithful customers for her skill and friendship. She was the voice of welcome at Birke’s who gently spoke up to her irascible husband Nathan Birke in order to protect her customers from his intolerant declarations that they weren’t allowed to browse or be trusted to ascend to the store’s second floor.

    Sally built a loyal following for the store by spotting new merchandise that she felt would be perfect for particular customers and setting it aside for them. Her awareness of her customers’ likes and dislikes and her sense of style and taste combined with her friendliness and small food treats, won her the affection of a wide variety of people. Often two or three generations from the same family would speak of her with special fondness.

    At the beginning of World War II, at the age of 18, she started out with Nathan, at her mother’s request, to find her older brother who was avoiding the German army. As the horrors of the invading Nazis and the cooperating Poles became more obvious, Sally and Nathan were forced to flee to the former Soviet Union where they married and spent the remainder of the war. Sally was the skilled operator of an elevator at a coal mine in Siberia. During this period of forced exile, Sally bore two children, Pinchus and Chaim, both of whom died in infancy.

    At the end of the war Sally returned to Poland to discover that her family had all died. Her sister Leia died of starvation, her mother Szifra and 8 year old brother Avram, were gassed at Auschwitz. Her father Eliezer and older brother Moishe Aaron were never traced. She and Nathan (whose family was also killed by the Nazis) immediately left Poland and eventually made their way to Lowell, where they founded their first store on Back Central Street in 1947. In 1950 they moved the store to Gorham Street and finally opened the Market Street location in 1960 — at the site of the current Birke Building.

    Despite such devastating losses at a young age, Sally acquired the strength and resilience to find the best in people and to create a life full of hope for the future and satisfaction with the present. She had four more children, son Lenny of Salisbury, NH, daughters Szifra of Lowell, MA and Roz of E. Greenwich, RI and son Richard of Portland OR. She was thrilled with her seven grandchildren, Tov, Kol, Jessica, Jaclyn, Ariel, Eliezer, and Esme and her three great-granddaughters Rachel, Samantha and Paige. Her daughters-in-law Susan Hankin-Birke, Salisbury, NH, and Angela Zehava, Portland, OR and sons-in-law Neil Blitz, E. Greenwich, RI and Jay Livingston, Lowell, MA meant a great deal to Sally. In the last years of her life, she was supported and entertained by her dear friend and helper, Anne Ianuzzo of Lowell.

    The entire Birke family is grateful to Anne for all she did to enhance Sally’s joy, and also wishes to acknowledge the team at Sunny Acres for the devoted care and attention they gave to Sally during the four plus years she lived there.

    A documentary about Birke’s was shown on WGBH and around the country. The film features Sally and captures her humor and vitality alongside her extraordinarily difficult life circumstances. (BrowsingThroughBirkes.com)
    To the end, and despite major memory loss, Sally was full of stories and humor. Her no-nonsense reflections on life, relationships and economics are enjoyed and valued by her family. Her resilience and persistence, despite the staggering blows she suffered, has been an inspiration to many. The joy and dignity of her later years offers encouragement that life can get better and better.

    The family requests that those wishing to honor Sally’s life remember that standing up to injustice is the only way to be sure that prejudice, bullying and xenophobia don’t grow into crimes against humanity.

    BIRKE — A memorial gathering will be held on Saturday, January 5, 2013 at the American Textile History Museum, 491 Dutton St, Lowell from 3:30-5:30. Remarks and shared stories starting at 3:30.

    In lieu of flowers, please send contributions in Sally’s memory to the Sally Birke Memorial Scholarship Fund. In recognition of Sally and Nathan Birke’s commitment to giving their First-Generation American children the best educational opportunities possible, this scholarship is to benefit First-Generation American or Immigrant Students who have been admitted to a U.S. institution of higher education. Greater Lowell Community Foundation, 100 Merrimack Street, Suite 202, Lowell, MA 01852-1707. Or an organization of your choice. Arrangments by the the McDonough Funeral Home, 14 Highland Street, Lowell, MA 978-458-6816.
    .

    Published in Lowell Sun on January 2, 2013 http://tinyurl.com/b4ebgwr

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

Follow

Get every new post delivered to your Inbox.

%d bloggers like this: